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How Is Chemo Like Sex?

I find myself being able to see the light at the end of the tunnel.  I’m halfway through chemotherapy.  Halfway.  Three down and three to go.  The end is in sight. How did my third round go?  It was…different.  I learned that my iron and red blood counts were low from hemorrhaging after my second […]

Posted in chemo, Love, sex, Stef Woods on November 15, 2010 by admin. Leave a comment

No Masks Required

I found myself at the Masquerade Party without a mask or the proper attire, but that didn’t stop me from having a fabulous night!  I was all smiles after meeting Model Boy, and I looked forward to getting to know him better as the evening progressed. Given the crowd, it crossed my mind that Best […]

Posted in Mr. Exec, Stef Woods on November 11, 2010 by admin. Leave a comment

The White Doll and The Black Doll

R: I have a story to tell you. Me [calling from the kitchen]: Okay, you can tell me. R: No, I’d like you to sit down next to me while I tell you. [I move to sit down next to her.] So, back when I was in Pre-K, they used to open up the doors […]

Posted in Stef Woods on July 23, 2020 by Stef Woods. Leave a comment

10 Things I’ve Learned Over The Past 10 Years

10 years ago this week, I sat down at my laptop and clicked on WordPress.com. I didn’t think much about my handle and template, as I set up a blog. Within an hour, I wrote my first post about getting asked out by a younger man and pressed publish. The act of blogging was simple. […]

Posted in city girl, city girl blogs, reflections, relationships, Stef Woods on December 31, 2018 by Stef Woods. 6 Comments

My Chemo-versary v4.0

I tasked my students in my Body in American Culture course with examining their thoughts about the body, beauty ideals and body image. The basic guidelines for this Body Genogram are as follows: Connect your early life experiences with your current understanding of your body and beauty in general. How do they or do they […]

Posted in Breast Cancer, chemo, Love, relationships, Roya, sex, Stef Woods on September 22, 2014 by Stef Woods. Leave a comment

Laura Meets Jeffrey Book Giveaway

Interested in winning a copy of Laura Meets Jeffrey? Read on to find out more about the book, author and how you can enter this giveaway! Laura Meets Jeffrey while she’s working in an upscale New York City brothel in 1980 and they share an apocalyptic moment. It’s love at first orgasm. And so begins […]

Posted in Love, sex, Stef Woods on March 7, 2013 by admin. Leave a comment

Stage 1. Not so fun.

I've been thinking a lot about the different hats that I wear. I'm a relationship and sex blogger. I'm the in-house product reviewer for Dascha Boutique and a sexuality educator for Fascinations at Fun Love. I'm a non-practicing attorney who will still talk about the law ad nauseum and answer her former clients' calls at […]

Posted in Breast Cancer, chemo, Love, Philly Matt, sex, Stef Woods on July 12, 2010 by admin. Leave a comment

Mounds of frustration

I left Buckeyes Boy on December 1, 2009, with his set of keys to our my place in my hands. I waited for tears to form in my eyes, but they didn’t. I drove off to Muleh on 14th Street to meet Misty at the fashion show after party. While I was there talking to […]

Posted in sex, Stef Woods on March 7, 2010 by admin. Leave a comment

Anal play for the straight guy

An Arlington Boy Guest Post: Months ago, I emailed City Girl with a burning question. I read some of her comments about anal sex and, as a result, was honestly curious about anal self-pleasuring and wanted some good advice on going about trying it out for myself. She gave me some absolutely incredible tips, and […]

Posted in Product Reviews, sex, Stef Woods on January 6, 2010 by admin. Leave a comment

“Mom, I think I have frostbite!”

February 1994 After The Diminutive Russian and I split up, my heart was broken. I was 20 years old and had moved down to DC for a guy who started out as a bad boyfriend and ended up even worse. I spent the next month, going to class at GWU, dancing on the platforms at […]

Posted in dating, sex, Stef Woods on June 9, 2009 by admin. Leave a comment

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