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How to show support during a health crisis

A friend was told that she has Parkinson’s Disease. A co-worker just learned that he has cancer. Your old college roommate had a stillbirth. How can you show your support for those people that you care about? Here are my recommendations: 1. Something is always better than nothing. In this technological age, there are numerous […]

Posted in Love, Stef Woods on August 11, 2011 by admin. Leave a comment

A huge up and a bit of a down

Words can’t do justice to how elated I felt when I received the call from Sibley Hospital that my biopsy was benign! I don’t have breast cancer! I don’t have to go through this all again! All is calm on the breastern front! A day after that call, I started taking a new cancer medication. […]

Posted in Breast Cancer, Love, Stef Woods on July 26, 2011 by admin. Leave a comment

What I’m looking for in a partner

A year ago this week, I met Mr. Agency. A few days later, we grabbed drinks together. A year ago this week, Best Boy spent the night at my place for the first time ever and told me: You’ve gotten in my head. As July turned to August, I had two minor surgeries to remove […]

Posted in dating, Mr. Exec, Philly Matt, relationships, sex, Stef Woods on July 21, 2011 by admin. Leave a comment

Bang and roll

At some points during my six weeks of radiation treatments, I wasn’t in a lot of pain and actually enjoyed being at the Cancer Center at Sibley Hospital. On my best days, the head radiation technician would play her latest hip-hop mix as we would catch up on the day’s events, and another technician and […]

Posted in sex, Stef Woods on July 20, 2011 by admin. Leave a comment

The Breastern Front

I’m so close to being finished with treatment that I can taste it. My last IV is scheduled for September 14, 2011. I can get my mediport (the small, implanted device through which I receive medications) removed later that week. And, then, I’m done. DONE. Hopefully. For the past month, I’ve had this feeling that […]

Posted in Breast Cancer, Love, Stef Woods on July 14, 2011 by admin. Leave a comment

Radiation boobs

Radiation therapy may be used during cancer treatment to shrink the tumor and kill the bad cells. In some cases (like mine), radiation has been shown to reduce the rate of the cancer returning or spreading. When I went for my consultation with my radiation oncologist, I received a packet of information with guidelines. For […]

Posted in sex, Stef Woods on July 12, 2011 by admin. Leave a comment

My go-to guy

In 2011, Best Boy and I went from seeing each other twice a week to once a week. (I wasn't exactly sure why that was, but I didn't have a problem with it either.) In February, I saw him shortly before I headed off to the beach with Philly Matt and my friends. Th events […]

Posted in Love, Mr. Exec, Philly Matt, sex, Stef Woods on June 26, 2011 by admin. Leave a comment

I’d rather be bald!

When I went to the Infusion Room last month, the nurses all looked at me with surprise and excitement. Nurse: Your hair is growing so fast! Me: I know. Manager: It looks great. Me: Thanks! But, I’d rather be bald than have short hair. And, I honestly would. I appreciate that an overwhelming majority of […]

Posted in chemo, dating, Product Reviews, sex, Stef Woods on June 25, 2011 by admin. Leave a comment

The lumps that aren’t so lovely

I know boobs. I love tits. And, I'm all over breast health. In fact, since I was diagnosed with breast cancer last June, it seems that I’m all about the tatas. With the disclaimer that I’m not a doctor nor do I play one on TV, here are some responses to questions that I’ve received […]

Posted in Breast Cancer, Love, sex, Stef Woods on May 25, 2011 by admin. Leave a comment

Open to interpretation – Part 2

Best Boy had just told me that he loved me. Did the fact that he said it for the first time ever while we were having sex negate the sentiment behind the words? Was he drunk and this was a case in which I should blame it on the alcohol? Did he really love me? […]

Posted in chemo, Love, sex, Stef Woods on May 15, 2011 by admin. Leave a comment

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