Time to tackle a reader’s question from Formspring: Question: My boyfriend is into anal, but it is not my preference due to some medical issues I had (down there). Even though I don’t mind trying new things, how do I relate this to him so he understands? Is there anything extra I can do to […]
I was a bit surprised when one of the owners of Lotus Blooms gave me a book to review, rather than a product. But, after reading Violet Blue’s The Smart Girl's Guide to the G-Spot, I’m very glad that she did! Sex educator and best-selling author Blue is an entertaining and effective writer. Reading this […]
On to another question from Formspring: Question: The one thing I’m most confused about is why all of these people write to you for relationship advice, yet you don’t seem to have been a part of many healthy, functioning relationships. I question why you continually bounce from one man to the next. Is it an […]
After my breast biopsies, I returned home to rest. Mr. Exec called me when he was out of his meetings to check on me. Mr. Exec: Do you need anything? Me: I’m okay for now. Mind coming over when you’re done with work? Mr. Exec: Not at all. I’ll be there in a few hours. […]
For many women, the G-spot or ability to achieve a vaginal orgasm is elusive. How elusive? Well, it's estimated that 75% of women cannot orgasm from vaginal intercourse without the use of toys, oral stimulation or manual stimulation. For others, the G-spot is a sexual Narnia of sorts through which much pleasure is obtained. There's […]
Are you looking for a toy for G-Spot stimulation that's a better quality product than the Rabbit? The women at Lotus Blooms recommend Lelo's Iris and Fun Factory's Delight because of the caliber of their products. I chose Fun Factory's Delight since that toy also provides clitoral stimulation. The Delight is made from 100% Medical […]
A reader sent me an email on Twitter last month, asking me about rimming. (For those of you who don't know what rimming is, it involves oral-anal play. Rimming occurs when one person licks, tongues or eats out the other person's asshole. It's also called a rim job, analingus, or tossing salad. The act can […]
An Arlington Boy Guest Post: Months ago, I emailed City Girl with a burning question. I read some of her comments about anal sex and, as a result, was honestly curious about anal self-pleasuring and wanted some good advice on going about trying it out for myself. She gave me some absolutely incredible tips, and […]
As we travel down the road toward Lubrication River yet again, let's talk about two more issues regarding personal lubricants. In Imerika's comment to my last post, she mentioned that some of her friends thought that K-Y's Warming Gel lubricant burned. The need or desire for lubrication is a personal one, but her words got […]