Mr. Exec and I had dated for a month. And then, we stopped talking to each other for a month. Now, Mr. Exec was back in my bed, referring to us a couple and telling me not to blog about our relationship. I didn't know what shocked me more!
Me: I'm sorry I can't promise not to blog about you. That's what I do.
Mr. Exec: I'm a very private person, and I need to know that what I say and do around you won't show up in your blog.
Me: I respect that you are a private person, but have you ever actually read my blog?
Mr. Exec: No.
Me: I'm a storyteller. I'm all about the details. You're asking me to change what I do right at the point when my blog might be turning into something bigger? You went to my Blog Party. You knew what I was doing!
Mr. Exec: And, I'm happy for you. But, I just don't want you writing about me.
Me: But, you want to date me and be in my bed? Writing about that stuff is what I do!
We spoke more about my blog and my readers, and then Mr. Exec asked me to leave a specific matter out of the blog.
Me: I'm fine with leaving that out.
Mr. Exec: Good. But, I don't want stuff that happens in our bed to be a topic for your blog. That's private…between us.
Me: What's with the 'our bed' talk? So, we're doing this? We're really getting back together and going to be a couple?
Mr. Exec: Yes.
Me [Long Pause]: Then, I might be willing to write about our bedroom activities without as much detail as I normally do. I'm not sure. I'll need to see how things with us go and how it works to change my style a bit. I'll definitely leave out what we discussed, though. I get that. And, I can also send you posts before I put them up so you can see what I wrote. Does that sound okay for now and then we can talk more about this when I get closer to blogging about our earlier dates?
Mr. Exec: Yes.
We kissed again, and it felt different. We always had passion together, but now, it felt sweeter and more solid.
He moved down the bed so that his head was between my legs and starting going down on me.
Mr. Exec [coming up for air]: Did you miss this?
Me: Definitely. You know I love when you do that, baby!
Twenty minutes and several orgasms later, it was my turn to reciprocate. In between kisses and oral, Mr. Exec said:
I hated that you said I wasn't there for you.
Me: But, you weren't.
Mr. Exec: I never want to be that guy with anyone, especially you.
Me: I know you don't. And, I know that you won't be like that again.
Mr. Exec: You made me so mad when you said that I was there for my friends, but not for you.
Me: I know I did. But, I know that's not how you are fundamentally. If I thought that was who you were, you wouldn't be in my bed right now.
Mr. Exec: I'm always there for the people I care about! Always!
Me: I know. You weren't for me that one time, and I know that it will never happen again.
Mr. Exec: It won't.
The topic changed to upcoming events, and he asked:
How are you going to be at events with all these women approaching me?
Me: Will they know that we're a couple?
Mr. Exec: Yes.
Me: Then, I'll be fine. As long as we're on the same page and they know that we're together, I won't freak out or need to be all up on you. I'd only get that way if they didn't know about us.
Mr. Exec: You know if I'm flirting with older women that it's just business. I'll never lie to you and I'll never let you down.
Me: Yes, baby, I know. Business is just business. And, I will always support you professionally. We both have very expensive tastes! [We laugh.] Are you going to be fine with me flirting with other guys?
Mr. Exec: Yes.
Me: That's good because it's not like I'm a wallflower. So…we're doing this? We're going public as a couple? You're okay letting your many fans know that we're together?
Mr. Exec: Yes.
He kissed me, and then we let the discussions about the relationship and blog go. I hadn't had sex with anyone since "Buckeyes" Boy because I wasn't ready to do so. Until now.