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What to do if it's been a whileIt’s time for a reader’s relationship question! Question: I'm in my first relationship since my divorce several years ago. We've talked about having sex, and I... more |
Absence makes the heart grow...Let’s start the week off with a reader’s relationship question. Question: My boyfriend and I were living in the same city for five months before he... more |
The Pain of AnalQuestion: My boyfriend is very big. I started to try anal, but it really hurt. What should I do, City Girl? Answer: Communication and patience are... more |
Assuaging a husband's fears about sex toysQuestion: I've never used an adult toy before, but lately, I've found myself wanting to try one. I mentioned the idea to my husband, and... more |
Like sands through the hourglassIt's time for a reader's question, and this is a good one! Question: My name is Ethan, and I thought you might be good to turn... more |
Book Giveaway - What Every Woman WishesIt's Friday! Time for a giveaway! Valentine's Day will be here in less than a month. If ever there were a time for men to learn... more |
Want to Date More in 2012?Interested in dating more in 2012? Here are my top five tips, as shared earlier this month on The Tommy Show on 94.7 Fresh FM: 1. Don't... more |
Juggling and jealousyIt's time to answer a reader’s question from Formspring! Question: I like playing the field and your Rules of Juggling. I pretty much commit to one... more |
2011 in HaikuTwenty Eleven Started year in chemo haze In my bed? Best Boy. He said he loves me But does that mean he’s in love? Neither of us know. Winter beach weekend With... more |
Third Blogiversary Thanks!Today is the third anniversary of my blog. In December of 2008, I was getting over Lawyer Boy, working on my thesis, and battling the side... more |
Orgasm HelpNothing says, “Happy Holidays!” like answering a reader’s question from Formspring. Question: I’ve never orgasmed, and I feel like every partner I’ve had takes personal offense... more |
Giveaway -- Hope for the CavemanMen throughout the United States and beyond have adopted a feminine perspective on what it means to be a man. Without realizing it, they have... more |
Facebook and RelationshipsIf your relationship isn’t “Facebook official,” is it real in this day and age of social media? Read on to learn about my thoughts on... more |
Giveaway -- Life's Too Short to Date Men Like MeA Hilarious Guide to Avoiding Jerks and Attracting Decent Men! Every woman has either dated a jerk, or knows a friend that has dated one. But... more |
Faking itLast week, I received three questions on Formspring related to having an orgasm. (Is there something in the air?) I’ll answer those questions in the... more |
Giveaway -- Attracting Your Extraordinary LoveMany of us have been focusing on what we can change about ourselves to appeal to our future soulmates. Maybe it's my hair color? Perhaps... more |
Losing it!Okay, so I’m a virgin. I want to wait until I’m married to have sex. When I do it for the first time, will it... more |
The Rules of Juggling“Do you tell all the guys you see that you're dating around, or is it just assumed that everyone does it? If someone is seeing... more |
The Anal-Loving JonesesYou don’t do anal sex?!? All the girls do it now. -- Statement made to a recently divorced woman from a guy she had started dating When... more |
Giveaway: Does He Cheat?I'm not one who spends time pontificating over whether or not a guy is a cheater. I try to believe the best in people --... more |
She loves himHe told her that he loved her, and she stared at him. Words escaped her, as her brow furrowed slightly and her eyes squinted in... more |
What's my number?At brunch yesterday, a friend relayed the following story to me: So, Joe [a mutual friend] and I were having dinner in Rockville, and the table... more |
Who pays for dates?TGIFormspring?!? It’s time to answer a reader’s question: What's your recommendation when it comes to paying for dates? I get the first, the second, but if... more |
A bad first timeIt’s Hump Day so let’s tackle a sex question from a reader: My boyfriend thinks since the first time we had sex was awkward, it means... more |
"O" faceLet’s start the week off with a question from Formspring! Question: My wife does not have an orgasm when I go down on her. She’s told... more |
Transitioning from friends to...With the opening of Friends With Benefits, it seemed only fitting to answer this question from a reader via Formspring: How do you transition from friendship... more |
What I'm looking for in a partnerA year ago this week, I met Mr. Agency. A few days later, we grabbed drinks together. A year ago this week, Best Boy spent... more |
Bang and rollAt some points during my six weeks of radiation treatments, I wasn’t in a lot of pain and actually enjoyed being at the Cancer Center... more |
Radiation boobsRadiation therapy may be used during cancer treatment to shrink the tumor and kill the bad cells. In some cases (like mine), radiation has been... more |
Why won't a guy do THAT?Formspring, I haven’t forsaken you! Question: My guy doesn’t go down. He did once for a very brief time, and I’m afraid that he doesn’t like... more |
Sex and...cancer?Every 30 seconds, someone in the United States is diagnosed with cancer. Last year, at age 37, I was one of those people. I needed a lumpectomy... more |
My go-to guyIn 2011, Best Boy and I went from seeing each other twice a week to once a week. (I wasn't exactly sure why that was,... more |
The end. For real.On President's Day Weekend, I went to the beach...and I lost one of my best friends. I'm not publishing the story of what my ex-boyfriend and... more |
An odd first date - Part IIAs my odd first date with Hampton Man continued, I felt like I was watching a fender bender. It wasn't the worst first date that... more |
An odd first dateWhat constitutes a perfect first date to you? From my perspective, I like when I find myself giddy with excitement and a touch of nervousness before... more |
How to master the art of dirty talkHow can you master the art of dirty talk to enhance your sex life? Read on for my tips: 1. Status check. There are people who never... more |
RoutineTwo girlfriends were in DC for a conference in early February, and we gathered at Proof to eat, drink and talk about work and boys.... more |
SimmeringI felt like a little girl in a grassy field, holding a daisy in her hand. I love him. I love him not. I really like him. I don’t... more |
Open to interpretation - Part 2Best Boy had just told me that he loved me. Did the fact that he said it for the first time ever while we were... more |
Open to interpretationI had hoped to go out again with Stanford Man after our inspiring and enjoyable brunch, but much to my dismay, he needed to go... more |
Talking it out -- Part IIA part of me wondered if I should hang up the telephone, ending the unnecessary closure talk that I was having with Mr. Agency. But,... more |
Talking it outAs I had predicted, Mr. Agency called me three days after our text conversation. In those 72 hours, I didn't shed a tear over him... more |
A long DecemberAfter Mr. Agency and I discussed what worked for both of us, I had thought that we had agreed to spend one night a week... more |
How do you relay information on social networks?On April 3, 2011, I spoke on a panel at the American University Social Learning Summit. The title of the panel was: Where Do You Draw... more |
Bah! Humbug!As I began to wonder if Best Boy and I could be more than just good friends with benefits, I tried to gauge where he... more |
Getting itMy energy and strength finally started coming back toward the end of the third round of chemotherapy. My iron counts were up after five transfusions,... more |
What do you need, honey?Let’s tackle a reader’s question from Formspring: So, my partner says she does find me “attractive,” but doesn’t ever really get into the mood. I’m not... more |
My 25 centsAfter Philly Matt and I broke up in 2006, we stayed in touch and enjoyed occasional benefits with each other. We both dated other people,... more |
Game changerMy ex-boyfriend, Philly Matt, and I see each other two or three times a year. In a typical month, we’ll text and email several times... more |
Many emotionsI tried to contain my shock, as Mr. Agency walked toward me and gave me a kiss on the cheek. (For all intents and purposes,... more |
What a girl wantsI accepted the fact that Mr. Agency wasn't interested in being in a committed relationship with me and focused on what would make me happy. ... more |
The next chapter? (Part II)Best Boy was coming over my place for the first time in seven weeks. (I wasn't sure of his motivation for doing so, but I thankfully... more |
NeedsI had expected that Mr. Agency was coming over to my place in the middle of the day to end our relationship. He had gone... more |
What's Going On?Mr. Agency and I were both out of town in early October. I had planned to return from Manhattan on Thursday, but Mr. Agency wasn’t... more |
From FWBs to Roomies?Time to tackle a reader's question from Formspring: Question: Can living with a "friend with benefits" work? Relationship is pre-existing, but the possibility of being roomies... more |
The Cart Before The HorseI felt as though Mr. Agency and I were in a good place. I saw him regularly, he treated me well, and I was content. ... more |
Back In The SaddleI felt so sick after my first round of chemotherapy that I didn’t have sex for almost a week. When I finally did have sex,... more |
Feeling LuckyI had let Best Boy know that we needed to take the “benefits” out of our “friends with benefits” arrangement. It surprised me that he... more |
More Than Friends With BenefitsAfter my recent conversation with Mr. Agency, I had some concerns. Would his lack of work/life balance be problematic for us in the long run? ... more |
Communication Is KeyMr. Agency had indicated that he would come over to my place after his events. So, when I received a text at 2am in which... more |
From Smiles To...The week after Labor Day, Mr. Agency and I continued to spend a lot of time together in bed. Mr. Agency: I don’t understand those couples... more |
Once Upon A TimeOnce upon a time, there was a Little City Girl. Her parents raised her with love, support and opportunities. They let her know that she... more |
Quite The Teddy BearMy friendship with benefits arrangement with Best Boy thankfully didn’t bar me from pursuing a relationship with Mr. Agency. I use the term, “relationship,” loosely,... more |
A Good FriendshipBest Boy and I continued to spend more time together, and I appreciated the fact that he put the “friend” in “friend with benefits.” He... more |
Spooning With Best BoyThat first week in August 2010, I let Best Boy set the tone about how often we saw each other. That seemed to work well,... more |
The Perfect Line-UpBoston Christian called me from the airport to update me on his dad’s status and say goodbye. I was glad to have seen him that... more |
Friends With BenefitsWhen I woke on that early August morning, I texted Best Boy: So…I had a VERY hot dream about us last night. Best Boy: Really?!? Me: Yep. Best Boy:... more |
In Full EffectThe weekend prior to my surgery, Mr. Agency and I had planned to get together. It was tough to coordinate our schedules, though, since his... more |
A Friendly NightAs my friend, T, and I arrived at Marvin, I caught her up on the latest with Mr. Exec and Best Boy. Although Mr. Exec... more |
Up On The RoofAfter meeting Mr. Agency at the Masquerade Party, we became friends on Facebook. That led to an email exchange, and then we began texting each... more |
No Masks RequiredI found myself at the Masquerade Party without a mask or the proper attire, but that didn’t stop me from having a fabulous night! I... more |
The Next StageThe middle of July found me wondering if Mr. Exec and I could work in any capacity. My uncertainty about what I wanted from Mr.... more |
Why Do People Ask Me For Advice?On to another question from Formspring: Question: The one thing I’m most confused about is why all of these people write to you for relationship advice,... more |
Quick, Quick, SlowI receive quite a few sex and relationship questions via Formspring, but it’s been a while since I’ve posted my answers to them. (Damn chemo!) ... more |
Diagnosis Night -- Part 3I had thought that June 22, 2010 would be a memorable day in my life because that was the day I had been diagnosed with... more |
Diagnosis Night -- Part 2I had just been diagnosed with breast cancer several hours ago. Now, I was at an event with Mr. Exec, watching him grab another woman’s... more |
Diagnosis NightOn June 22, 2010, I received the call from my doctor, informing me that I had early-stage breast cancer. When I hung up the phone,... more |
Quite A DayAfter my breast biopsies, I returned home to rest. Mr. Exec called me when he was out of his meetings to check on me. Mr. Exec:... more |
Intimate TermsI exhaled deeply before picking up the phone to answer Mr. Exec’s call. Me: Hey. [Pause.] What's up? Mr. Exec: Hello. How are you? Me: Good. We continued to... more |
The CallI found myself surprisingly comfortable with Mr. Exec. We were benefits without friendship – nothing more and nothing less. However, my comfort was replaced by... more |
TomorrowI was up in Friendship Heights last week, when I received the call from my oncologist's office. The physician's assistant tried as kindly as she... more |
Even more to the storyMr. Exec and I had dated for a month. And then, we stopped talking to each other for a month. Now, Mr. Exec was back... more |
(Much) more to the storyAs I joined Mr. Exec on the couch, we caught up about work and life. (Yes, we had seen each other a few days... more |
A night to remember - Part IIWhat do you get when you mix one City Girl, one Best Boy and his best friend and a guy that I dated for a... more |
A night to rememberWas I being punked? While in the cab en route to meet Best Boy at Ceiba, he called to inform me that his best friend and... more |
A new chapter...maybeImprov Boy was out of the picture, and I found my lineup in May to be rather thin. I needed to remedy that quickly! When... more |
And a miss!Improv Boy had just informed me that he didn't want to come upstairs with me because he didn't think we had a future together. ... more |
A swing...As my group left Nationals Park, some of my friends expressed interest in going to a bar.Improv Boy: Do you want to join them?Me: I... more |
Take me out to the ballgameAs I arrived at Nationals Park, I smiled as I recognized some of the men working security. (I used to be a regular at... more |
Feeling safeImprov Boy and I never talked about whether we were a couple, but we definitely interacted as though we were in a relationship. The... more |
Giving things a chanceI had just realized that I had been mistakenly texting my high school boyfriend, Boston Christian, all afternoon, instead of the guy that I was... more |
Texting funI had a little crush on Improv Boy, and it felt good. We were in that blissful early phase of a relationship. I couldn't help... more |
Making me blushSeveral hours after Improv Boy had left my place on a Monday morning in early May, I awoke with two thoughts on my mind: 1. It... more |
I'm too vain for this!After my Mom was diagnosed with terminal cancer in 1997, we went to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Hospital for a second opinion. As we waited in the... more |
How nice is too nice?For our first one-on-one date, Improv Boy suggested dinner in the city. That was perfect for me! I texted him to inquire if... more |
Nice guys are...nice!As I headed over to Clyde's for Happy Hour, I found myself rather apathetic about meeting Improv Boy. My apathy stemmed less from true... more |
Changing my waysMy birthday was behind me. Philly Matt had gone back home. Mr. Exec was trying to reach out, but after he had failed... more |
Stage 1. Not so fun.I've been thinking a lot about the different hats that I wear. I'm a relationship and sex blogger. I'm the in-house product reviewer for Dascha... more |
Are 3am texts ever sincere?Following my concussion in early April, I canceled my plans for several days to recoup. I wasn't sure when I would hear from Mr. Exec... more |
Insult to injuryIt was the first weekend in April, also known to any sports fan as Final Four weekend. I was planning to watch the games... more |
Just Do ItNow, some readers' questions from Formspring: Question #1: Any advice for a woman who is considering asking a guy out. I know him socially but not... more |
Trusting your partnerI've received quite a few questions via e-mail and Formspring about cheating. I thought that I would tackle some of them today. Question 1: I love... more |
Playing hookyIt was a cold and rainy Tuesday in late March. I was lounging on the couch in my Old Navy sweats when my phone vibrated.... more |
Tea for twoAs my date with Mr. Exec approached, I found myself a bit giddy. Mr. Exec was handsome, successful and intriguing, and I was looking forward... more |
Wrapping it upI recently received the following question on Formspring: I have had unprotected sex a couple of times, and I know it's a bad idea for the... more |
In like a lionLast October, I attended a charity event on the Hill. When I walked into the venue, I immediately noticed Mr. Exec, a very successful business... more |
Are You Ready To Lose It?I received the following question on Formspring last week: Hey City Girl!! I wanted your advice on losing one's virginity. How do you know when the... more |
How soon is too soon to have sex with a new guy?When I was in NYC recently, I had lunch with an old friend. In less than a month, her long-term boyfriend had broken up with... more |
Around the rimA reader sent me an email on Twitter last month, asking me about rimming. (For those of you who don't know what rimming is, it involves... more |
One orgasm at a timeEarlier this month, I received this question from one of my favorite virtual friends: How do I stop myself from essentially being "done" after one clitoral... more |
The revealIt was New Year's Eve. My hair was done, and I had my party dress on. I had Tweeted that I was heading to Georgetown... more |
New strategies"Buckeyes" Boy hadn't paid for his parking tickets. He hadn't unblocked me from Twitter. He hadn't found an hour or two in almost three weeks... more |
Get me off of this ride!So, "Buckeyes" Boy lied to me -- and several other members of the DC Twitter community -- about where he went to school and played... more |
My own Lifetime movieWas I disappointed when I found out that "Buckeyes" Boy had lied about playing football at Ohio State? Of course. But, I'm a glass half-full... more |
Wheel of emotionsI awoke on the morning of December 3, 2009, with mixed emotions regarding Buckeyes Boy. Imagine a wheel like the one on Wheel of... more |
Mounds of frustrationI left Buckeyes Boy on December 1, 2009, with his set of keys to our my place in my hands. I waited for tears... more |
Ball of confusionThroughout the morning of December 1, 2009, I felt myself becoming stronger and stronger. I had tolerated a lot in my relationship with Buckeyes Boy,... more |
My BF blocked me on Twitter. Now what?I felt like I was in the middle of the ultimate Twitter relationship story. I had met Buckeyes Boy at the Twestival in September 2009,... more |
Just Call Me CarrieI woke up on November 30, 2009, feeling confused and unappreciated. Buckeyes Boy hadn't come through yet again last night. I wanted to e-mail him,... more |
PrioritizingThe patterns of late in my relationship with Buckeyes Boy were unhealthy. Somehow we went from dominant and submissive in the bedroom to dominant... more |
The light bulbMy game of Chutes and Ladders with Buckeyes Boy continued. There seemed to be a direct correlation between his work schedule, his mood and... more |
An Oral QuandaryA friend approached me at an event last week in search of my advice about a situation with his girlfriend. Friend: So, my girlfriend doesn't like... more |
I'm a 1950s housewife!I am giver. A nurturer. I take care of the people in my life. How did those qualities manifest themselves when Buckeyes... more |
The intimacy of analI have been frequenting L2 Lounge quite a bit recently. When people ask what I do (which is usually the first question that people in... more |
Sex in the shower tipsA comment from one of blog friends got me thinking about how I have sex in the shower...logistically. Yes, there are space constraints, running water... more |
Toy shopping for othersI recently overheard the following conversation at Pleasure Place in Georgetown: Girl [holding her boyfriend's hand and pointing to a vibrator with her other hand]: So...do... more |
It's Friday and I'm still in loveFriday, September 18, 2009 Buckeyes Boy and I couldn't stop smiling and giggling as we got in my car to go to Safeway. I hoped that... more |
It's Friday and I'm in loveFriday, September 18, 2009 Buckeyes Boy and I were going to be moving in together! I was jumping up and down in my apartment and couldn't... more |
A 2nd great dateSeptember 2009 My first date with Buckeyes Boy was amazing! I knew that I was attracted to him physically from the moment that I laid eyes... more |
A GREAT first dateSeptember 2009 I went to bed after the Twestival with a huge smile on my face because of Buckeyes Boy. Eight hours later, I woke up... more |
An anal queryOne of my favorite bloggers sent me a great question via comment in response to my Anal 3.0 post: I am a man and have no... more |
Anal 3.0: The Back StoryAfter writing my previous posts about anal sex, I've received several questions about the topic. Here are some of my thoughts to those questions, as... more |
(Not that) Happy Birthday to me!March-April 2006 Philly Matt was heading to Qatar with the Air Force Reserves in five weeks so I tried to focus on the positive. He was... more |
And another door opens - Part III walked around Midtown Loft during the DC Twestival, mixing and mingling as City Girl, Relationship and Sex Blogger. I met a few more people,... more |
And another door opensSeptember 2009 I woke up on the morning of the 10th with a heavy heart and a few tears in my eyes. On this day last... more |
Lube Job 2.0As we travel down the road toward Lubrication River yet again, let's talk about two more issues regarding personal lubricants. In Imerika's comment to my last... more |
Lube JobSo, I'm not a medical professional, but I am a sex blogger who is comfortable talking to her friends about sex and writing about it... more |
He's great on paper, but...July 2009 I was still on a high from meeting JAG Man. We had a lot in common, and we were both in similar places in... more |
Great on paperSummer 2009 JAG Man sightings during the month of June made for some interesting dog walks around my neighborhood. JAG Man always warranted a look back... more |
It's always sunny with Philly MattJune 2005 I left NYC a day early to stop off in Philadelphia to go out with Philly Matt. We hadn't seen each other since my... more |
What's good for the goose...This afternoon, I posted the following Tweet: Thinking about double standards between men and women. Would I have to blog about relationships and sex anonymously... more |
I'm a Sex BloggerLast night, I attended the DC Twestival. It was a gathering of the DC community on Twitter to benefit Miriam's Kitchen, an organization that provides... more |
Musings on multiplesQuite a few men don't understand multiples. As in, orgasms. This is fascinating on some levels, and disappointing on others. Is it possible that some... more |
Can a threesome help you reconnect?In response to my posts on reconnecting with your partner, one of my friends suggested the option of "trying a threesome." I think a threesome... more |
A City Girl Challenge - Part 2Have you orgasmed today? Yes, YOU! If you have, give yourself a pat on the back from me. If you haven't, what are you waiting... more |
A City Girl Challenge: ready...set...cum!I get excited when I hear that my friends and readers have used my posts to help explore their sexuality. For some, it might be... more |
There's something about Philly MattApril 2005 Our second evening in Philadelphia found us at dining at Tangerine and grabbing drinks at Lucy's. I wanted to go to Club 27 to... more |
City of Brotherly Love2005 For the last weekend in April, my friends and I headed to Philly to join our girl, Nizzle, for her birthday. The plan was for... more |
My Sex SabbaticalTheir mouths open, as they try not to have their jaws drop right in front of me. I see their eyes getting wider. There are... more |
Finger-licking good -- Part IIIThe vibrators are in the toy drawer. You know your woman can reach orgasm. You are looking to change up your normal routine. Tonight is... more |
Finger-licking good -- Part IIIn my last post, I talked about how vibrators can desensitize a woman's clitoral nerves, making it more difficult for her to orgasm without toys.... more |
Finger-licking goodA friend recently asked me to write a post about jilling or fingering a girl. I think back to my junior year in high school with... more |
The perfect guy...almostGoogle revealed that Safeway Guy was married. But, what if the bio that I had found online was out-of-date? He and I had such an... more |
Google to the Rescue!Yesterday afternoon, I headed to the nearest Safeway to pick up some goodies for my Housewarming Party on Saturday. My cart was loaded up with... more |
Bon(er) Appetit -- blow job musings 2.0My last post addressed the basics of giving a blow job. But, what do you do when your guy is ready to cum? After brunch at... more |
Bon(er) Appetit -- blow job musingsAs a disclaimer, I realize that all guys are not the same and that what works for one cock might not work for another. But,... more |
Do nice guys finish last?I had met Austin on eHarmony in the fall of 2004, and he did everything right. I don't normally go for the nice guys, but... more |
Nice, but not too nice = just right!In the fall of 2004, I figured that I should start dipping my toes back in the dating pool to see what was out there.... more |
My dating world is too small yet again -- Part IIAugust 2004 What are the odds that I would run into Lawyer Boy after a year when I'm out on a first date with another guy?... more |
My dating world is too small yet againSo, in May of 2003, I learned from a mutual friend that Lawyer Boy had a live-in girlfriend (Darby), and ended my relationship with him.... more |
Lawyer Boy on my mind in 5-7-5Haiku* Trying to forget Our affair. My memory Like an elephant Was doing so well Put away the Kleenex box With my old yearbooks 'Til I saw the pic Of Darby's pregnant belly Floodgates... more |
All the single (and proud of it) ladies...now put your hands up!When I meet someone for the first time, I'm often asked, "Are you single, City Girl?" "Yes." I gaze into the person's eyes and notice his or... more |
"Mom, I think I have frostbite!"February 1994 After The Diminutive Russian and I split up, my heart was broken. I was 20 years old and had moved down to DC for... more |
Blow job lips2008 The text came in from Lawyer Boy: Leaving office and heading your way :). Me: :-D! I was up in my apartment and had decided to skip... more |
The Art of Staying Down (aka my oral sex musings)A dear friend of mine recently hinted that I should hurry up and write my post about Oral Sex. Ask and ye shall receive... I'm writing... more |
Do It for (Dr.) Johnny!For some reason, I am the subject of quite a few rumors regarding hooking up or trying to hook up with guys at weddings. Ironically,... more |
The Perfect HomeFebruary 2003 I had been inside Married Matt's house before - several times, in fact. Now, though, I looked at the place differently because his wife... more |
Athletes are sexy. 'Roids aren't.In September of 2006, I was bored and signed up for Yahoo Personals for a month. I went out with two of the guys that... more |
The Diminutive Russian -- another contender for Best Worst BoyfriendAnother contender for my Best Worst Boyfriend would be The Diminutive Russian. The year was 1993. I had recently arrived in DC for my college... more |
Mama Said Knock You Out2008 I was in NYC for ten days, and Lawyer Boy had a race in The Poconos. We were debating whether he should come see me... more |
The Beef -- a contender for the Best Worst BoyfriendI put a link to my blog on Facebook to increase traffic, and got an interesting comment from an ex-boyfriend, The Beef, about how he... more |
Saran Wrap should be clingy, not boys2008I decided to at least meet Mr. Port Authority when I came back home to DC. To assuage the fears of my friends who thought... more |
Anal 101 for Heterosexual CouplesOver the years, quite a few friends have asked me about anal sex. What does it feel like? What are my tips for trying it... more |
Laughing at a comic isn't always a good thing2005 In 2002, Basketball Boy and I went out on our first date to dinner and a comedy show at the DC Improv. We saw a... more |
The Dog Days of Dating2007 I won a date with a guy in New York City as part of a Charity Date Auction. He was incredibly attractive with sandy-brown hair,... more |
It's a Dick in my In Box!Last spring, I finally came to the realization that Internet dating is not for me. I've done it a few times over the years, but... more |
Nothing says a first date like The Port AuthorityI went on Match.com for a few weeks last March. Some of my friends in NYC had been using the site, and I thought it... more |
Tabasco -- so what do you put it on?1994 Sometimes I don't have the best filter. That can be both a strength and a weakness, depending on the occasion, the company and the comment.... more |
Yes, I broke my nose having sexGeorgetown Boy and I were an almost-lethal combination. He was destined to be a rebound guy from the start. I was still in love with... more |
Purple Thong BoyThis is an oldie (a dating adventure from 2002), but a goodie. I met Michael at Cheesecake Factory on a Saturday morning. That should have be... more |
Brooklyn Boy -- Part II or What Not to Say on a DateI was really looking forward to my date with Brooklyn Boy and saw the evening as a chance for us to get to know each... more |
Brooklyn Boy -- Part II recently ended a relationship with a man I loved...a lot. I know that it was the right decision to break it off with him,... more |
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A horrible first dateIt was fall of 2007, when a friend IM-ed me about fixing me up with this guy he had just met. I'm not one for... more |
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Is there a Puma inside of this City Girl?I traditionally don't date younger men. It's not a rule that I have, but more of a preference. Someone my age or a few years... more |
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