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A Surprise Visit

December 7, 2010

The weekend after my surgery, I relaxed at home.  (I felt very good, but I still didn't have much mobility in my right arm since the doctor had removed two lymph nodes.) 

I had been playing phone tag with my first love, Boston Christian, and was somewhat surprised when he called me at 11pm on a Saturday night.  (He and I typically spoke during the day, when his wife, Beth, wasn’t home.)  

Me: Hey!  How are you?

Christian: I’m good.  How did your surgery go?

Me: It went well.  I’m not 100%, but I should be within the next week.  There wasn't any cancer in the lymph nodes, which is great news.  What are you up to on this Saturday night?

Christian: I’m looking for pizza on North Glebe. 

I stared at the phone with a confused expression on my face.  There was a North Glebe Road in Arlington, a Virginia suburb of Washington, DC.

Me: Umm….are you in DC?

Christian: Yes.

Me: Seriously?  What are you doing here?

Christian: My Dad had a stroke and was transferred to Washington Hospital Center.

Me: Oh my God!  I’m so sorry to hear that.  Is he okay?

Boston Christian then updated me on his father’s status.  His dad’s prognosis was good, but he would require extensive rehabilitation.

Me: Is there anything that I can do? 

Christian: No.  I'm just tired and starving.  I haven't eaten all day.

Me: Do you want to come over here, and I can order some pizza?

Christian: I was hoping you’d say that.  What’s your address?

I gave him my address and figured out what he wanted on his pizza.  After hanging up the phone, I placed the order for food, straightened up a few things in my place and touched up my makeup.  I was a bit giddy that Boston Christian was here in DC.  Why is that?  Well, Boston Christian holds a special place in my heart.  He was my first…everything!

First orgasm?  Check.

First love?  Check.

Guy I lost my virginity to? Check.

Christian and I dated for a year from 1988 to 1989, when we both were in high school.  The following year, I moved to California, and we lost contact with each other.  In 2007, I found him on Myspace (yes, Myspace!), and we reconnected.

At that time, Christian worked for a financial services firm in Boston.  He also lived with his long-term girlfriend, Beth, but they had been having some problems.  They were trying to decide whether to break up or get engaged, and Beth took a job in Springfield for a year.  They spent the weeks apart and the weekends together, as they contemplated their future.

After a couple of months talking to Christian on the phone, I decided to head up to Boston for a week.  I caught up with old friends from college and enjoyed a lot of quality time with Christian.  He and I had shared so much together growing up, and almost 20 years later, we still had a very strong connection. 

My trip to Boston was filled with long talks, many laughs and lots of kisses.  We felt right together and spoke a lot about what it would be like if we were a couple.  When I boarded the plane to return to DC, I wondered if we would start dating again.  That didn’t come to pass, though.  A few weeks after my trip, Boston Christian called and told me that Beth had returned home for a month.  They were going to try to work on their relationship.

A year later, Christian and Beth got in engaged.  They married in 2009.

I hadn’t seen Christian in over three years.  He was no longer single.  And, he was coming over my place by himself at 11:30pm.  I tried to reconcile how much history Boston Christian and I had with the fact he was now married.

There was a knock on my door.

To be continued…

Filed under: 2010 - Tags: dating, exes, relationships

Comments (4)

Ack! Just when I was beginning to believe you would never do this crazy cliff hanger thing to me again, you throw in a doozy! Can't wait to see where this one goes?
Posted by Teacher Girl on 12/08/10
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It's me, Teacher Girl. I will always pull out the cliff hangers. Please don't hate me! xoxo
Posted by City Girl on 12/09/10
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I haven't been reading your blog for that long nor do I have time to go back and read EVERYTHING you've ever written (at least not and keep my day job) so wondering what your thoughts are on sleeping with a married man? Not that you did or didn't in this instance but...?? Cheers, T. www.themarathonsmistress.blogspot.com
Posted by Toddy on 12/08/10
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Your comment made me smile and laugh out loud, Toddy! I have been in relationships with two married men (Married Matt and Lawyer Boy in my Categories). However, I vowed when I ended things with Lawyer Boy in 11/08 that I would never get involved with a married man again. And, I've stuck to that.
Posted by City Girl on 12/09/10
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